Don’t Do Stupid %$&#

I remember the first time I seriously asked my father what he did for a living.  Just a little background before I get to the punchline here, my father is a real estate attorney, mostly large commercial and residential construction.  He works with some of the largest property developers in the country.  Anyway, I’m 12 years old and I ask him what he does, and he replies simply, “I spend all day stopping people from doing stupid shit.”

He went on to explain that although the developers he worked with were very smart individuals of course, if left to their own devices they would bankrupt themselves quickly by simply doing stupid shit.  I worked for one of them in college, and I can tell you, he was right.

My father is in a sense, a risk manager, someone who tells the developer what he legally can and can not pull off.  As well, he advises the developer in matters of negotiation, and keeps them from saying stupid shit that could wreck their plans.  What he does is not all that complicated, he’s said as much to me in the past.

The lesson here that I’m trying to get across is two fold.  First, everyone needs a risk management plan, or a risk manager standing over their shoulder.  Left to our own devices, we are all most likely to screw stuff up.  The second point here, is that one slip up can cost us dearly.  In real estate, a slip of the tongue during a negotiation can cost you the whole project.  In trading, one bad trade can blow your returns out of the water, forcing you to claw your way back for months.

It’s easier said that done, but at the end of the day your job as an independent trader or asset manager is to avoid doing stupid shit.  This means not taking out sized positions, trading in markets that aren’t fit for your style, drifting in style, or trading as if you were gambling.  If you’re a good trader, the rest will take care of itself.

  • jadoube
    Seriously, though I agree with you 100%. And your list is a good one though it only scratches the surface. Like all challenging tasks, trading offers MANY more ways to do stupid shit than to succeed.

    Trading's especially tricky though, because, as Dr. Brett Steenbarger has mentioned many times, it not only punishes the incompetent swiftly and repeatedly, but it seduces the highly competent into a state of hubris that can ultimately prove as destructive.
  • jadoube
    Hmm, you're 12 years old and your Dad uses the phrase "stupid shit" to you?

    Impressive child-rearing skills.
  • Dude, ya gotta stop making personal comments on people's blogs, just not
    cool.
  • Trading Voyeur
    Nice!
  • Well said. I continue to trade options but only to use no more than 10% of capital, in case i screw things up many times.
  • Jim_cardin
    Leigh, You have quickly become a very good resource for my trading. I've struggled with not trading in difficult markets for years and you're reminders are (maybe) getting through. Thanks for sharing
  • @torbjornrive
    Amen. Especially at this juncture. I learned the hard way in 2009 playing with options. Lost 130% of my 2008 gains. It took that STUPID shit to level my head, and now I trade plain stock (swing) only.

    Thanks for your posts, all around.

  • Jim_cardin
    Leigh, You have quickly become a very good resource for my trading. I've struggled with not trading in difficult markets for years and you're reminders are (maybe) getting through. Thanks for sharing
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